This is something that has brought to my attention – people who abuse the title “anonymous”. I have no problem with people who leave comments on my blog using “anonymous” if they have substantial points to convey but when they get personal, I think the least you can do is use your real name (this is for my recent anonymous commentator). Why hide behind “anonymous” if you feel so much hatred for me or the things I have to say on my blog? As a good friend of mine, Elaine Wilson aptly put “Celebrities aren't made by hiding behind a computer screen” – well said, Elle!
There are just things that are not worth mentioning online and I can confidently say that my partner, best friends and most people would agree on that. That does not mean that in real life, we hide things from each other.
It is so much easier to say anything you want behind “anonymous”. Most people abuse that privilege by saying nasty things to another person. But doesn’t that make you a coward? I’m not talking about my avid readers that have been supportive and respectful of my blog by stating their names after their comment, I’m talking about one particular “anonymous” and I know it’s a guy. From what I know, you’re happy with your girlfriend now so what is the problem? Don’t tell me you haven’t moved on? I have and I suggest you do the same.
This blog is meant for me to write occurrences in my life. It is my blog and I have the right to choose what I want to blog about. I’m aware that anyone out there has the right to say whatever they want on my blog and I really welcome the comments but if you don’t have anything to say in regards to the content of the blog, then I suggest you don’t say anything at all. Give your point of views, or share your experiences but if you want to get personal – then make use of the email address provided on my blog profile.
Actually I'm not a guy, I'm a girl,a girl that used to be close to you actually sis :) so there's no point dragging him into it or accusing him for something he 1)isn't guilty of doing and 2)actually doesn't even know about seeing as him and I don't talk anymore, and I don't hate you I just think you should be honest.
ReplyDeleteHi Asian Belle
ReplyDeleteI've taken off a few days at work just to catch a breather since I did not really have off during the December holidays. I see that you have not blogged for a few days, hope all is well. Just wanted to let you know I'm back and looking forward to read more in your blog. Keep well and enjoy the week. Iza
Hi there Iza,
ReplyDeleteHope you had a great few days off from work :). I haven't been able to blog in the last few days, well I did blog but just didn't post them. Will do soon.
Thanks again and take care!
Here's a bit of honesty for you...
ReplyDeleteI find it strange how people like to get involved with things that clearly have nothing to do with them. Their life really must be so boring that they have to cause drama for other people. What a sad life they must live.
People will always try to drag you into the past Myst. For reasons unknown to any normal person. You're not allowed to make mistakes because not only are you judged on them, you also have to live with the knowledge that some spiteful person will bring it up again for no reason.
In my opinion, you only have to be honest with yourself and those directly involved. Which I know you have been. I can state that as fact as I'm still friends with all people involved.
And it's true what I said, “Celebrities aren't made by hiding behind a computer screen”. They want the glory of insulting someone without having to reveal who they are. Because they're cowards with nothing better to do. Probably afraid they'll lose more friends because they're just that damn good at it.
End of the day, if certain things hadn't happened then chances are you wouldn't be where you are now and neither would he. And where are you both? Happy with the ones you truly love. If that anonymous 'thing' honestly didn't hate you then they would have left the past where it belongs. Let's face it, the only thing bringing something like that up would serve to do is cause trouble.
You truly are an amazing person Myst. I can honestly say that you've been a rock to me in the last few months that I've been ill. You made me keep hope that I'd get better but without sugar-coating it like most other people have. You're one of my closest friends and don't deserve people like that sticking their nose in where it's not welcome. And a big nose it is if I do say so myself. =]
On a side note...do you think this idiot knows about the Feedjit??? Something tells me they don't... ;)
<3 Elaine 'elle' Wilson
Hey Elle,
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry I didn't reply to this earlier. I've been bogged down with a lot of articles to write. Story of my life - at the moment!
Thank you very much for your kind words, Elle. I don't give a damn anymore what people say or think about me (us). I know some are jealous with how things worked out or perhaps they think they 'know me very well' that I'd fucked up somewhere somehow but 4 years down the road, we are still going strong and I believe we will be stronger than ever in the long run.
You've been amazing to me and you are an awesome person, Elle. It's great that we have this kinda bond between us that we found recently. You've been really awesome and I thank you for that.
As for Feedjit - NOPE. Don't think they do! Haha.
WE ROCK!!! Woooooooo! =D
ReplyDeleteElle <3