This Shall Pass...

You can interpret this photo any way you want!

As some of the regular readers of mine know, the last few weeks have been full of drama and my blog was filled with unnecessary comments made by mean girls who are old enough to be grandmothers to the actors of the movie “Mean Girls”. I must admit that part of me was hurt but not from the comments made. I was partly hurt because they chose the internet and my blog to abuse me and my other half. Of all the options available, they chose to spew nasty comments on my blog which is suppose to be my haven.

I would think the photo posted was the last straw, however when we found out that our home address was given out to a total stranger it really woke us up that this woman who claimed to be a nice, polite Christian crossed a line that she shouldn’t have in the first place. Giving out a person’s home address, even phone number (without the person’s consent) is really out of the line. If anything shall happen to me when Dawie is not around, the charges will be on you for giving out the information. Please take note of that. My family will not hesitate to press charges as well. If I were you, I’d start praying that the person you gave our home address to is not another psychotic woman.

Throughout this insignificant drama that we were dragged into, I realised that my instincts were right and that I shouldn’t have ignored some of them to begin with. Women’s instinct is the most powerful thing. I knew from the beginning that there was going to be trouble and there were preventive measures that we could have taken but I (we) always give people the benefit of the doubt. Some people may think that we are blowing this out of proportion but if only you all knew the things she did that we rather not share (if I was really mean, I would really air everything out in the open but hey, I’m not her) with the public, then you wouldn’t think that way. She has overstepped the boundaries several times, to be honest.

And last night, I found out that whoever that has been messing around with me has crossed yet another line by contacting one of my brothers by telling him that “your sister is seeing a married man”. It got me thinking how ridiculously stupid these women are, bunch of imbeciles even. My family knows about my relationship with my partner. They are aware of this blog, you know. They have even seen us on Skype, for heaven’s sake. Sheesh. Idgits.

It has come to a point where I just smile about it (now that I’m thinking about the day all of this started). I can’t be bothered to publish the nasty comments I get because it just shows how immature and nasty these women are – it’s pathetic and honestly, I feel very sad for them. They get the joy out of hurting other people they know absolutely nothing about.

I’m very happy. I live my life the way I want to without giving a rat’s arse about what people think. They can call me all the nasty names in the world – in different languages too – I don’t care anymore. I know I’m the better person here. I know my boyfriend’s past more than anyone (save for his ex-wife) else can claim to know. Despite all the mistakes he has done, I love him endlessly and I know he can be a better person. He is already an amazing man and I know he can be better – I believe in him. I believe in our love for each other. I know he would be just as patient if the roles were reversed.

So really, nothing can come between us even if you tried harder. Just keep in mind that I can be nastier – believe me when I say that – but my God taught me to be patient and that He looks after those who are being ridiculed, abused etc. So continue with what you are doing. If being nasty makes you feel superior and good about yourself, so be it. Just remember that for all the bad things you do to people, they’ll come back to you two folds. Or is it ten folds?

Enjoy your day!