So much happened since last week especially and I refer to people speaking their minds about us as a couple, and also the comments we endured from people who thought they were hiding behind an 'anonymous' identity. Unfortunately the internet can be a very small place at times and you 'bump' into people who know people, who know people, who...etc, etc. You get the idea...? People claim that they do not want to read this blog, but for some strange reason these individuals keep coming back for more...Please explain to us why?
The comments we have had to endure and absorb have ranged from 'rude racial comments' and down right rude references to my girlfriend's skin colour and more. YES - It is the year 2011 and we still have people among us that find it appropriate to call someone, from another country, I might add, a Hot.... or a Kaf...? I had to explain actually these racial slurs and references to my girlfriend, because she did not get the comments. And these are people who openly say and want us to believe that they are Christians and people with 'Values' - Come on! Get out of there!! Amazing hey...? We have even been ridiculed and discussed by strangers on Facebook and even our home address has been given to strangers! And I kid you not...!
The owner of this blog is one of the most beautiful, honest and good-hearted people I have ever met in my life. She started this blog to keep her family she misses so much back home, up to date with her 'new life' in South Africa, but through the attacks from certain people who do not even have the guts to come forward and face us or reveal their true identities, it sadly has to be said that she lost a bit of her enthusiasm.
We spoke a lot over the past week-end and decided that the best way to deal with it is to concentrate on US and nothing else. We are truly happy together and we want to be together, no matter what. She knows my past in a lot more detail than some may think, but she knows the real me and that is why she wants to give us a very good chance to succeed...! And I thank her for that...xx
I love you and I am sorry about all this...It actually has such a positive affect on us and I can feel how it all makes us so much stronger as a couple...! It cannot Kill us, that is for sure...:)
Well said Dawie. It's good that all those people have managed to do is bring you both closer together.
ReplyDeleteIf bitching be the food of love then bitch on anonymous people, because nothing you say will tear these two love birds apart. =P
Remember one thing though, if people are giving out your address then they have gone way too far and if it was me I wouldn't hesitate to involve the police. Anonymous people should take this into consideration if they are going to continue to harass you. Because that's what that is...harassment.
Stay strong you two. You have plenty of people supporting you =]
They didn't achieve much - not the way they wanted to :)
ReplyDeleteWe are focusing on us and if it so happens that they want to keep bothering us and talking shite about us - go ahead. I mean, Elle - seriously, I believe deep down inside they wish to be me - lol. Why else then would they keep stalking, harassing us?? :p
They've gone too far with giving out the home address - that's for sure!
Thanks, lambie - we appreciate it LOTS!! <3
Thanks for your comments and support Elle...Much appreciated!
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